Technology is
advancing by the nanosecond, sweeping us into the tide of change. New gizmos
and gadgets are radically transforming our lives. Electronic devices are our
closest companions today. Wherever we go, the network follows. Social networks
in the virtual world are overshadowing reality. We have no time to look at or
speak to each other, though we tweet and text eternally. Recent research in
Birmingham Business School (UK) shows that frequent posters of selfie photos or
self-portraits on social networks alienate those close to them, thus weakening
supportive human bonds. Is interaction between people and lifeless gadgets
becoming more important than connections between human beings? Are we placing
more value on technology and prepared to offer less to each other?
Rapid strides in
technology improves our lives and offers hope for a better tomorrow. While
scientific advances can have a backlash, technology can also help us find new
remedies. Infections resistant to antibiotics, for example, are a matter of
growing concern. But a new gene-editing system developed by scientists in MIT
promises to selectively kill bacteria carrying harmful genes that cause
antibiotic resistance and disease. Human
technology interferes with fragile ecosystems. This can trigger floods, landslides
and other disasters. But technology is also helping concerned people join hands
and volunteer for rescue work. It’s up to us to choose how to use technology.
In the good or bad
old days, people cared and looked out for each other. Everyone cultivated their
neighbours, colleagues and members of their communities. These people were a
priceless social support network; sharing information and lending a sympathetic
hand in times of need. Apartment dwellers in our metros now give murderous looks
if you smile at them. Run out of sugar? Why disturb dragons next-door, when you
can order grocery on-line and get doorstep delivery? Searching for an unfamiliar
address? Locals can send you on wild goose chases. Why bother for random oafs,
when the magical technology of Google maps lies in the palm of your hand? Jobs
are no longer places where people grow roots, and colleagues become lifelong
friends. The rat-race is everything, and our hunger to acquire expensive
gadgets drives us.
High-tech
playthings are radically altering our perceptions. They create the illusion of
being connected, while isolating us. We all have thousands of ‘friends’ on social
networking sites. But how many do we actually know beyond fleeting virtual
contacts? Would we really bother to do more than click a mouse for each-other? When
my father passed away last year, members of a local internet-based network of
women professionals sent their condolences via sms and e-mails. Though we have
met many times in real life also, only one of them personally met me. Social
media is a delightfully convenient way to make us feel righteous and uplifted,
without getting involved. All we have to do to demonstrate our concern is click
the ‘like’ button or forward some e-mail, before we move on to the next cause
of the moment. Meanwhile, one wonders about all those dazzling social lives on
Facebook. If they really were enjoying life eternally, would they have so much
time for Facebook?
Technology is a neutral
tool in itself. What we can get from it, depends upon how we choose to use it.
Social media can make us indifferent and even dehumanize us. As a wise person
said, people are meant to be loved, and things are meant to be used. Much of
today’s troubles arise because we love things and use people. But weren’t enough
people callous and self-absorbed even in the technology-free past? If we want to,
we can also use technology to draw people closer and increase intimacy. That’s
what my school friend did, when she made a long internet phone call from the
other side of the planet. Those words of solace from a friend who genuinely
cared, compensated for the many who had only beeps and pings to spare.
Thanks to
technology, you don’t have to be consistently helpful, caring or jovial any
more to have a social life. Witty and enlightened conversation? It’s simpler to
post selfies with your tongue sticking out and attract hundreds of appreciative
‘likes’ from virtual ‘friends’. Cocooned in an illusion of popularity, we are
busy clicking, tweeting, pinging and beeping. We won’t notice if the man
walking next to us on the street gets mugged or mowed down by a bus. People
have been known to get run over by trains and cars, while they were busy on
their cell phones. We have never been so constantly connected, and never so
alone.
The virtual
world is distorting our lives in the most surprising ways. Before we jump to
blame corrupting western influences and praise our own culture, let’s make a
reality check. According to recent news reports, a Bareilly college student
decided that a woman from Kerala whom he met on Facebook, was better suited than
his real parents to be his ‘mother’. The lady electronically transferred
Rs22,000 into his account, and the young man used it to go and stay with her.
If you think this is a crazy isolated
incident, think again. Indian marriages are routinely made not in heaven, but
in matrimonial portals. Educated young
Indians are too busy checking WhatsApp and Viber to compose an attractive and
relevant profile. If they don’t care to write a few meaningful sentences about
themselves, one can only imagine how they will treat their future partners and
marriages. Everyone knows that Indian men lag behind orang-utans in the
behaviour and intellect departments. Today’s tech-savvy Indian ladies are
striving to outshine men in every way. Here are a few exact quotes (including
bad grammar etc.) from actual profiles of professionally qualified young Indian
women on marriage websites:
“Hi. am a v.
simple gal doing M. A in English. I love 2 hv spicy foods, spending tym with
frends&family, lstng music, dancing etc.”
Brevity is the soul of wit for this 24-year-old
woman doctor, whose complete bio note reads; ”i like France. I like saudi
arabia.i like to watch movies”.
The woman who
writes this one-liner, is refreshingly honest: “I am a Fun Loving Person who
don't prefer to think much before doing anything.”
Another
emancipated young lady writes this sparkling one-liner to define her
personality: “I love to do shopping, gossiping, eating, watching latest movies.”
Such profiles are a dime-a-dozen, making one wonder how many understand the
importance of marriage in fulfilling the human need for intimacy and emotional
support. A healthy marriage can beat the stresses of today’s hectic lifestyle
by binding two equal partners in a caring and nurturing relationship. But can such
technology-dazed young people spare the effort and attention needed to build a
healthy understanding with others? Relationships today are being made and
trashed with sms, tweets and Facebook status updates. Can such a shallow
approach enable people to seriously deal with life’s problems?
Will future generations be able to strike the
right balance between isolation and connectivity? Many toddlers in middle class
Indian families are hooked on to shiny, noisy gadgets. Parents boast how kids can
operate laptops before learning to speak sentences. Even underprivileged domestic helpers use cell
phones to amuse their children, while going about their chores. Such children tend
to mimic the behaviour of characters in cartoons and video games, and confuse
the imaginary world of electronic sounds and flashing images with reality. Children
are spending more time viewing screens, than interacting with other children.
This hampers the growth of their human relationships, and affects their development
into responsible adults. Busy making money and keeping up with the twitterati,
parents have little time to draw their children close and find out what is
going on in their lives.
News today
travels at the speed of light. Images of bomb blasts, beheadings, epidemics and
war are served every morning with our breakfast. Technology thus interweaves violence
into our daily lives. Are violent TV programmes and video games behind today’s
culture of blood and mayhem? Or is the issue more complex? Electronic images
aren’t monsters empowered to corrupt normal humans into killing machines.
Well-produced TV programmes can educate and spread positive values while entertaining
children. Video games can develop children’s motor skills and alertness,
prevent them from feeling bored and lonely, and falling into bad company.
Violence on screens is only part of a larger problem which makes children today
more aggressive. Rather than policing children, adults can proactively guide
them to make the right choices. And leading by example is the best way. As parents,
we can try to spend more quality time understanding and engaging our children,
instead of posting selfies and status updates.
We don’t yet
live in a world of unfeeling robots. Even when we surf the net or watch TV, the
content has been created by humans, and is meant to interest other humans. We
may connect with electronic signals to social networking sites in cyberspace.
But we exchange texts and images with real people, even if they are not
physically before us. Die-hard technology freaks haven’t yet completely forsaken
human connections. Those cell phone calls and messages are made to other
humans. On-line game players may spend hours in imaginary worlds. But they
interact with fellow gamers there, and together they influence those worlds.
Most LAN, WAN, and internet activity still needs human inputs although signals
are transmitted by machines.
The future may
change with advances in automation and artificial intelligence. Intelligent
machines are already learning to pilot planes and cars, babysit children and prepare
food. Someday, machines may fuel the main thrust to our progress. Robots could
replace human friends, bosses, children and lovers. Robots could program
themselves to evolve intelligence and abilities superior to humans, rendering
humanity useless and powerless. They could turn into monsters out to
exterminate their original human creators.
Such terrifying
scenarios could, but need not necessarily translate into reality. Humanity can
stay on the right track if we do not forsake our morals and principles in order
to get ahead. Progress and ethics do not have to be mutually exclusive. Moral
people need not be impractical dreamers. And crooked means need not be the only
path to solid achievements. Striking the right balance and showing concern for
our fellow human beings can be one route to improving our lives.
We have every
right to try to fill our brief lives with joy. Technology opens up multiple worlds,
adding fun and excitement to our existence. These worlds can be closely linked
to reality, such as groups of former school and college mates. These worlds may
be imaginary and fantastic, such as gaming and TV shows. Whichever options we
choose to explore, we can gain new information and perspectives, and also
simply enjoy ourselves. Learning, being productive and having fun need not be
contradictory. Technology can broaden our perceptions in countless ways, helping
unleash our creative potential. The best ideas and innovations are most likely
to thrive when we have some liberty to explore and play with new concepts and
experiences.
Today’s technology
constantly swamps us with information. The noise and confusion can overwhelm
us. We need to think clearly and choose how to best use our time and resources.
When faced with conflicting options, we need to evade loud but misguiding
voices vying for our attention. We must cultivate healthy scepticism and not
believe everything we see and hear in cyberspace. Once we do that, technology
can offer wonderful rewards.
By overcoming
our self-centeredness, we can use technology to understand others, their lives
and thought processes. Understanding others is about listening carefully to
what they have to say, and analysing its significance. This helps us to be
better parents, employees, bosses and spouses. We will also know how to
persuade others to our way of thinking. This isn’t only about goody-goody
altruism. If we can learn how other people think, the world can be ours. Ad and
marketing men are already using social media to identify markets, and figure
out the most appealing and convincing approach to sell Mt Everest. Terrorists
are using social media to coordinate and plan attacks, and spread fear among
the populace. Who do we want to be?
Technology can
help us understand others and be more innovative and effective in whatever we
choose to do. It’s up to us to sustain our own principles. As Isaac Asimov
rightly said, technology is but a neutral tool at our command. If knowledge can
create problems, it is not through ignorance that we can solve them.
This is published in Sunday Herald